Memorial Resource Library

However you got here, I’m glad you found us. Whether you’re planning a service this week, sitting beside someone in hospice, or trying to get through the months after, everything we’ve written is here, sorted by topic. Every guide is free.

If someone has just died and you don’t know where to begin, start with What to Do in the First 72 Hours. If they died at home under hospice care, start with The First Hours After a Death at Home.
Looking for something to print? All of our free printable guides, workbooks and checklists are in one searchable catalog. Browse the free printables →

Planning a Funeral

For the days between the death and the service: what to decide, who decides, and how to make it feel like them.

Veterans & Military

Honors, benefits, hospice care and grief for the families of those who served.

Hospice & Caregiving

For the long days and nights beside someone you love, and for the people caring for them.

Grief & Healing

For the weeks, months and years after, whoever it was you lost.

Children & Teens

Honest, gentle help for the grown-ups caring for a grieving child or teen.

Money & Your Rights

What things cost, who can help pay, and the rights families have with funeral homes, cemeteries and care teams.

Words for the Service

Original poems, verses, obituary and eulogy examples, and words for the stone.

Making Your Program

Step-by-step help with choosing, editing, wording and printing a funeral program.

Looking for a template? Browse our funeral program templates.

For professionals: free resources for hospice and care teams, the Hospice Staff Library, for funeral homes, and for schools and teachers.

If you are in crisis, call or text 988. In an emergency, call 911.